Sometimes I Must Look Away…

and take respite in two offerings from PBS.

Dear Reader:

These are tough times right now, but not for men who may be wrongly accused of crimes against women as POTUS suggested this week. These are tough times for women and men of good character and conscience.

Yesterday our president mocked Dr. Christine Blasey Ford while at a rally in Mississippi and Esquire magazine provided the perfect headline for the story underneath his picture:

This Vicious Buffoon Is a Vessel for All the Worst Elements of the American Condition (I couldn’t have said it better, so I didn’t try!)

I watched the coverage of his speech with a mixture of disgust, anger, anxiety and sadness. I was born in 1960 and I’ve been a feminist* for as long as I understood what the word meant. My only child, Natalie is 21 years old and I knew that she would not be leaving college and entering a perfect world before the 2016 election. But, I sincerely believed that our country had made significant progress toward our journey to equal rights for the sexes. I think most people took that for granted. Perhaps we have, but, obviously there is more work to do in our homes, schools and workplaces. And, most significantly, in the courts, Congress and White House. We are being reminded of our responsibilities to one another as citizens of a country based on the principles of equality.

I’ve got a theory for what is happening right now. Here it is. Imagine turning over a rock in your garden, dear reader. What happens? Well, it’s creepy right? Everything ugly comes crawling out into the light. Exposed. That’s what’s happening right now in our country. The ugliness has come crawling out. The “Vicious Buffoon” in the White House has given it license to spew its poison upon us. We must wholeheartedly reject the president’s message and the Republicans’ spineless response to the nightmare that has become our daily reality since the election. And, we must remember that the yucky things that live under the rocks are only a small percentage of what inhabits our beautiful land. We are a majority and we have power.

Speak your mind. Change a heart. Write an opinion piece or a letter to the editor. Make a donation. Speak your mind, again. Stay engaged as much as you can. And, when you simply cannot take it anymore, pour yourself a glass of vino and tune into PBS for Poldark and The Durrells in Corfu. We all deserve a break!


* According to Merriam-Webster, feminism is “the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes” and “organized activity on behalf of women’s rights and interests.”

10 thoughts on “Sometimes I Must Look Away…

  1. The rock analogy is a good one. I have been utterly horrified by events. I really hope that there is a huge backlash and that people have the guts to stand up for what they know is right.

    1. I’m sure you’ve encountered many rock situations in your time in the garden! I will vote and I have the guts!

  2. Give me Poldark and the Durrells any day over the mad, sad, bad world of the man in the White House. I like your message of encouragement at the end of your post. We must not despair. We have come to far to go back. If you would like another break, may I suggest a peek at another show, one which I attended a few weeks ago. Start at about 17.53. ( Hope I didn’t show you this already!)

    1. Thanks for the read and the link! I’m a Jacinda fan, as you know. I posted about her! Watched her on the Colbert Show last week (that is another show that keeps me relatively sane!). She was wonderful. I’d forgotten, if I knew, that N.Z. was the first to grant women the right to vote! Be proud! And, yes…despite it all, we must keep the faith.

      1. Oh I am so glad you saw Jacinda on the Colbert show. She was lovely there, too. Colbert keeps me sane, although I only see it via clips on YouTube.

  3. Beautifully said, Michele. It makes me sad to understand that the ugliness has always been there lurking, but perhaps the exposure can bring the healing. I keep reminding myself that we can’t fight what we can’t see. Onward!

    1. Nice to see you back Busy. Alas, I’m Busy too. But I see you’ve written about cooking and have a show…I’ll be reading and watching in between packing boxes. I’ve always wanted to be a good cook. New home…new LARGE kitchen…it’s on the list! TY for reading

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